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San Diego, Ca, United States
I love God & my family. Some of my hobbies include; natural hair, music, fashion, and did I mention natural hair. I am the ultimate girlie girl; I love dressing up, doing hair, makeup, fashion and SHOES. I value family, life, embrace self acceptance and cherish the things God give me to steward. I am optimistic and also a skeptic. It cost absolutely nothing to be positive or negative, I choose to be positive. This blog will incorporate a mixture of things that I am most passionate about. The main focus is hair but I will throw other things in there every once in a while. Please feel free to comment and ask questions, I LOVE QUESTIONS! Since going natural I have been glued to my laptop, I enjoy networking with other naturals who share the same love and respect for natural hair. My goal is to reach waist length hair by Aug 23, 2013. Thank you for stopping by Peace & blessings. Happy growing!!!!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

YOU KNOW YOU MISS YOUR HAIR WHEN...........

The time has come and I am missing my hair :-( although being natural is about different phases I dislike this one the most. Now don't get it twisted I can get use to just waking up and having hair in the back of my mind BUT.

Today I finished my econ final and what seemed to be the most challenging assignment ever.

 Next class starts in 30mins and I decided  to browse around the natural world. Of course there is no browsing natural hair without getting inspired. I am jealous of all the naturals that are doing it without protective styles, lawd knows I can't. I am proud of you all and I have a new found respect for all of you.

I am looking forward to things that I once dreaded when I cared for my hair outside of Protective styles (PS)so I know I am having a bad case of hair withdraw today. But I am sure I will get over it!

I am also looking forward to my 2 YEAR NAPPIVERSARY!!!!!! OMG I cannot believe that I am writing these words. WOW 2 years. I would like to say to all the transitioners out there; don't be afraid to BC because you wont know where time has gone.

For my bday I want to try a twist out on blow dried hair so it should be nice and massive. I cannot wait. So there you have it queens, plenty to look forward to and not enough time to wait.

this is what I want.......HEY, a girl can dream.. lol
Chow

Friday, April 8, 2011

Natural Hair and its' surprises

I am so taken back by how far I have come since my BC 1 year ago!!! Today my play brother tagged me on facebook and I had to take a second glace at the picture! It was almost as though I didn't recognize myself. I cannot believe how short it was just a year ago and how confident and proud i rocked it! I am so proud at myself for making it this far. I am pleased with EVERY decision I made and smile on my journey up to this point. I evolved with my hair, looking back at this pix I feel like a stranger looking at someone elses picture. I can honestly say I cannot see myself ever doing it again, however I would do it again over getting a relaxer. Wow I don't miss the phases that has came and gone, but I embraced and enjoyed every single moment of them all. This journey is never ending; as long as I am breathing it continues. I can't wait to see what next year brings and how I react to  pix of my hair now. 






Natural Queen of the Week: Michelle

This weeks natural beauty is my fotki sista Michelle. I remember when I first created my fotki page I was seeking inspiration and someone to school me on what to do. Michelle was helpful and sweet, she always answered my annoying questions and havebecome a good friend on mine. She inspired me throughout the entire experience. She brings everything to the natural world. LETS GET INSPIRED!!!








1. How long have you been natural? How long did you transition?


*I've been natural for 2.5 years now. I transitioned for 8.5 months and BC on June 20, 2008.

2. What are the pros and cons (if any) of being natural?
*For me there are all pros for being natural. I have the versatility to do just about anything to my hair from twists, braids, updos, blowouts, rollersets. I love how fast my hair grows, for instance back in Oct. of last year my hair was cut 3 inches I panicked, my mind reverted back to what if it doesnt grow back. But of course like clockwork almost 6 months later Im almost back to BSL again. When I use to relax it would take me years to grow 3 inches of hair.

3. Please describe your hair texture and its behaviors ex. kinky curly coarse coil very dry....
*My hair is kinky for the most part and slight curls in the back. Most of my hair when wet has a wavy appearance but dries with lots of frizz. I have medium to fine strands but my hair is very dense so it gives the appearance of thick hair. It can be very dry if not properly moisturized and can handle heavy creams and butters very well. My hair also need a good protein treatment about every 6 to 8 weeks, it really helps with shedding or breakage.

4.What inspired you to become natural?
*I was really tired of the chemical burns from the relaxers. I developed dermatitis from a bad relaxer mixed with the eczema breakout on my hair. I was tired of my hair breaking excessively in the same areas. Another motivation was that of my sister, she had been natural for 7 years at the time and had waist length hair. She always said just go natural but I was hesitant because our textures are vastly different and it wasnt until I developed a skin condition from a relaxer that I knew I was fed up.

5.What is your hair goal?

*My goal is to get knee length hair.. haha yes its extreme but I just wanna see if I can do it. Once I get there I plan to cut it and keep it at hip length. 
6. Name 4 fave hair products?
*Shea Butter, Aloe Vera, VO5 for detangling, and Giovanni Direct Leave in

7. What tips and advise would you share with us? 
*I would definitely say protective styling is the most important thing if your trying to see growth, but dont get so caught up on growth that you miss stages of your natural journey. 
Also moisturizing is so important, find a moisturizer that works for you, dont be afraid to try the all natural route instead of buying every new product that comes out. I stick with the basics, I mix aloe vera shea butter and castor oil, or aloe and giovanni direct leave in and heavy sealant. Dont pile on product after product, learn what works for your hair and stick with it.

8. Where can you be found?
*I'm all over the web on
Fotki

Youtube- I just started will be updating weekly

9. What advise would you give someone who is considering going natural?
*I say just do it, the benefits will far away in negative opposition you may encounter in the beginning. A lot of times the people who have something negative to say end up becoming natural because of how quickly and how long your hair can grow. Plus do it for you and your health and stay on blogs or fotki or whatever it is to keep you motivated.

10. Would you say being natural affect your life? if so in what way?
*Once I BC I gained so much confidence I never knew I had. It was like a great weight had been lifted off me. I was never one to say that I was conforming to someone's standard of beauty but literally I felt free I felt like me all this time and I couldnt figure out why I was hiding it all these years. I feel like its also affected all my friends around me because just about all my friends became natural after seeing how much my hair grew. 





Thanks for letting me do the interview
Love
Michelle aka NowIamnappy

Sunday, March 20, 2011

BACK TO BRAIDS

I ran into an interesting post today on my fav website  http://bglhonline.com/ about braid extension http://bglhonline.com/2011/03/roll-call-your-experience-with-braid-extensions/
. It turns out that a deep treatment with apple cider vinegar can cure itchy scalp; cant wait to try.

So if you have not been following with my natural hair journey you should know that I have embarked on a 2 years braid challenge. I honestly underestimated myself when I decided to do so. I thought it was just a phase and once I started to miss my hair I would give up....WRONG! I am pleased to announce my success with this challenge, I am going on one year in September and my hair is thriving. I notice it is thicker than ever, and very healthy. If I can choose 3 things I care the most about when it comes to natural hair they would be;

1. Health
2. Moister
3.versatility

The list would go in this exact order. I notice length is a given when manes is properly caring for. Frankly, I am enjoying all the phases to long hair not through long hair...who knows, I may do a drastic hair cut in the middle of my journey just because I get bored very easily. But then again, I love to experiment with different styles. I am sure I will come up with enough styles to keep my mind off the scissors. I also promised my mother if she supported me in my decision to go natural I would never cut my hair again (now I am wishing I wouldn't have) LOL. A promise is a promise and I intend to keep it... besides I didn't say anything about trims (wink wink).


This time around I took a break from kinky twist and went back to the good ole regular braids. I cut it in a medium ebony bob and really like the results. I have the attention span of a 5 year old  boy when it comes to EVERYTHING. I GET BORED EXTREMELY EASILY,I just had to change it up.































back view



Peace & Blessings!

Monday, March 7, 2011

Puff with Sammys Curls creme

Today is my wash day and although I dread doing it today the job had to be done. I misplaced my boners liquid soap so I grabbed the least best thing available; shampoo! 
I conditioned with Aussie moist and detangled after rinse with Samys curl creme. I applied Samys curl creme as a leave in for my wash n go puff. To sleek my edges I applied a small amount of Castor oil to my edges with my hands (no brush), I then used my sating silk scarf to wrap my head, the results were good enough to make me write a post. Natural hair never lets me down so it's no surprise that the results were satisfactory but believe it or not I am starting to think the fact that I have learned my hair plays a major part. I remember having lots of failed styles due to lack of knowledge of the products, now that I cut out a lot of them it's easier to get better results and narrow down what works and what doesn't when I use 1 at a time. Of course I took pix to share. Enjoy!




 right side view


 left side
 back view

 front view

Thursday, March 3, 2011

When Natural hair gets Positive Attention

Two natural related stories that placed a pleasant smile on my face today. I wore  my hair in two flat twists on stretched hair, the style was simple but cute (like all other natural styles) 




while getting pumping gas a brotha says,

"hey sista, what made you wanna wear your hair natural like that?" 
I answered,

"Just me growing up into a woman and being comfortable in my own skin not having to rely on other peoples hair to feel beautiful"

He says with a proud smile on his face,
"that's BEAUTIFUL, you dont see sistas rocking their hair natural often"



Later that day I was walking out of my religious studies class and the only brotha in that class walks up to me and says,
"where is your fro?"
 He was referring to the braid-out I wore to  class last week (refer to braid out post)
this is the style i wore

I replied that I wanted to change things up today and that rocking a "fro" is time consuming, time that I didn't have today. He then confesses  that when he seen my hair last week he thought, 
" yea she got skills"
He insisted I wore it like that again next week.

whether or not I get compliments they give me another reason to love and enjoy my naturalness and I am only 1 and half year into my journey. I am afraid of the kind of remarks I'm gonna get once I have the MASSIVE fro 



Natural Queen of The Week: Kamara

 This weeks natural beauty knows the meaning of natural hair  journey, this experienced natural has mastered how to treat her gorgeous full head  of loose tresses. The unique beauty Kamara has to bring to the natural world is her strength, determination and patience throughout her journey, I am sure you all will enjoy her interview and most importantly get inspired!!







1. How long have you been natural?  How long did you transition?
I think my last relaxer was sometime around New Years 2007. So, I'm heading up to 4 years without a relaxer. As for the transitioning, that's a little more complex. I'd say I transitioned for 8 months, just because that's how long I went without hacking off parts of the relaxed ends. I just used to snip pieces randomly over the course of about 6 months, so by April 2008, I was more or less natural.

2. What are the pros and cons (if any) of being natural?

Pros: I definitely feel more in touch with my hair. When it was relaxed (from age 11 to 19), my hair styles consisted of buns, buns, the occasional fancy hairdo after a visit to the salon, and oh, more buns. Going natural definitely upped the necessity to get creative. I lived in Claire's and other accessory shops :) Another pro is that I don't have to fear the weather; if anything, a little rain shower keeps the tresses moist, you know what I mean? Also, I feel different, like I stand out with my natural hair. I can do styles now, I'm not style-challenged anymore.

Cons: Natural hair is more work for me. There, I said it. Now, hear me out. It is more work, but it is more enjoyable, so it doesn't seem like work. Also, my hair gets everywhere! Man, it's annoying sometimes, especially when cleaning the shower. So not a good look.



3. Please describe your hair texture and its behaviors ex. kinky curly coarse coil very dry....

My hair is kinky. 4a, 4b, call it what you will. It's got split personalities too. The back will curl when wet, the front will barely manage a wave, and the crown.. well, that just says "who you tink you dealing wit?" and stays as wiry and coarse as ever. My hair tend to get dry as well. Even while relaxed, I had that problem. It also fuzzes/frizzes like crazy. My twists stay decent for like a week tops. Then they get the "halo effect". Good thing I don't mind it, or I'd be bald (or relaxed) by now.

4. What inspired you to become natural?

I'd always want to do it while I was in secondary school, but never had the courage. Then while studying in Canada, the second winter, my relaxed hair was like "peace", and left the building. It broke so bad, I was like.. I could as well get rid of it. I went home for summer (back to lovely warm Barbados), and I just cornrowed for 4 months. So I fell into the natural thing.

5. What is your hair goal?

My hair goal is healthy hair and a healthy scalp. Not so much length. With my kind of hair and my kind of temperament, my current length of about shoulder length in shrunken twists is quite enough. If it grows longer, and I can manage it, then great.



6. Name 4 fave hair products?

This is a tough one, I don't use many products right now. But I'll try. Hmm, shea butter is number one. Number 2 would be water. The third is ORS Olive Oil hair creme. And the fourth, any conditioner that smells good and gives slip for detangling. Back in the day, I used Giovanni Direct-Leave In, but I didn't use it long enough for it to be a fav, though I did like it.

7. What tips and advise would you share with us? 

a) Be patient. A watched pot never boils, and watching your hair everyday or week to see it grow, is torture. 
b) Try to have some kind of routine, but don't let your hair mess with your life. It is only hair after all. And vanity is vanity; the same way you shouldn't let money, or your job, or whatever else be     your centre, it's the same with hair.
c)On a lighter note, being natural gives you so much leeway in being creative with your style. Even me, who was kinda plain before, has gotten some extra flair :) So have fun with it.



8. Where can you be found?


9. What advise would you give someone who is considering becoming natural?

In addition to no. 7 above, remember to do it for you. It's not a trend. Going natural is more like returning to natural. You aren't really going somewhere that you've never been. It's just a place you visited a long time ago, and now you have to figure out the way around. There are great resources out there open to you, so use them :)





10. Would you say being natural affect your life? if so in what way?

Definitely. I think all the answers above can illustrate it, but mainly it's taught me patience and a bit of confidence as well.